Analyse the relationship between the mother and her son in The Sons Es

Analyse the birth mingled with the mother and her male child in The SonsVeto by Thomas Hardy showing how their behaviour and attitudes were abnormal by rules of order.The Sons Veto is a short story that focuses on a woman, Sophy, whois torn between two conflicting social classes. Sophy is an uneducatedliving-room maid who marries a man above her class to secure her future.The word of honor that is the outcome of the marriage is arrogant and selfcentred. He acts as purpose he is superior to his mother because ofhis higher education and who he socialises with.The family between Sophy and her word of honor, Randolph, is poor becausethey grew up in different classes. The thing that held theirrelationship together was the father and husband. When he dies it isas though the mother and son have nothing in common anymore. Socialattitudes have bear upon heir relationship because the mother cannot beaccepted into the sons class and the son ordain not be accepted intothe mother class because it will ruin his reputation.At the beginning of the story, Hardy shows the social detachmentbetween Spohy and her son through the language he uses, Has, dearmother - not have, exclaimed the public schoolboy. Hardy uses veryimpersonal phrases to describe how Sophy is be treated as if she isan object, She was conducted out of the gardens and passed along thepavements.There is an expectation of how Sophy would be treated as a disabledwoman. She noticed how people were evoke in her but she did notmind, did not mind gratifying their low density. Sophy is seen as thebarter of the male and not as an individual. This means society treatsher differently because of this as well as being disabled.When Sophy is the par... ...son. It is Randolphs insecurities and shame everywhere his mother thatleads him to control her life. In this way, as long as he is there tosupervise her actions, he can take those extra precautions to clogany social embarrassment that may be inflicted upon him by his mother.Sophy does not necessarily recognize this fact, but is only willing toput his inevitably and wants before her own. She also feels a sense of dutyand obligation towards Randolph and whence accepts what he says asbeing final. Ultimately, Sophy believes it is his happiness she needsto ensure and secure, not her own. This, sadly, is how she leads herlife.Hardy analyses the flaws existing in society today and gives a barbarian example in showing how the standards set up by the public,as well as the selfishness that prevails among the citizens insociety, destroyed Sophys life.